Some people REALLY astound me with their stupidity level. I dont mean to be rude, it's just eople like this just drive me crazy. Lemme explain: before my late grandpa died, my mom only saw him twice. One before he was sent off to the nursing home and once after. When she saw him at the nursing home, he didn't even recognize her. He asked her, "May I help you?"
Ok ok, I jumped too far ahead. ><
Backtracking even further, before all this happened, my grandpa had surgery to to clean out his only working artery, mind you it wasnt working at full strength; I think it was 70% clogged. He ate too much grease over the years and it finally caught up to him. So they went in to remove it and somehow, the docs fucked up and the stuff went to his brain and caused a stroke. The affer effects? He was a stuttering mess, paralyzed on his left side too. He couldnt swallow so they put a feeding tube in him. But get this, they wanted him to practice SWALLOWING EXERCISES! What a contradiction, no?
I've been a hospital volunteer before, plus I have had more than my share of hospital trips thanks to my family's health issues. You pick up a few thing when you've been enough times. What I didnt learn from the trips, I researched. So, I offered suggestions to my grandma to help grandpa get back on his feet. Her answer was always, "The therapists said this or that." Translation: "You're not a licensed nurse/doctor/etc so you dunno shit." >.>
Fast forwarding to after his death, my mom's family hasnt stopped bitching about how she didnt go to his funeral. She has been sick for the past 3 months with no signs of getting better. Her family is made up of many assholes. >.> Before he died, her sister had the balls to call and leave the following message on our answering machine: "If you love your dad, you'll come to see him before he passes away. He's waiting to see you one last time." - Seriously? I'm pretty sure I've heard that cheesy line in some movie or fanfic...or both.
But nothing pisses me off more than someone who isnt even apart of our family. He's my uncle's wife's father. He didnt have the balls to pick up the phone and bitch, even better, say it to our faces; no, the jackass bitched over FACEBOOK in a private message.
"This is hard. I know I'm not a part of the family. But I do know a lot about values.
You should be terribly ashamed of yourself. Your behavior during the illness and death of your own father was deplorable. He was one of the most loving, honest, gentle, generous man I have ever known. A true man of God. And you virtually ignored him and your mother during the entire time of their most profound need. Absolutely no excuse short of your own death or hospitalization for you to miss his funeral.
Family loves one another. Family comes together. Family cries together.
You are both mother and father now to Amanda. I observe you being a terrible example to her.
No need to respond. Just get over yourself; it's not always about you. I do pray that God will touch you and your life with the type of love that He has for you, that you would and should share."
I'm pretty sure all of you would agree, no one talks shit about your own mom and gets away with it.
Challenge accepted, Bitch. D:<
Listening to: Morning Musume